7 reasons why he doesn't love you...

No thanks!

It's about YOU. Not about why he doesn't love you.

We all know them: the lists with “7 reasons why he doesn’t love you,” “10 signs that he doesn’t care about you,” or “What you should never write if you don’t want to lose him.”

Honestly?

No thanks.

Because this is not about him .

It's about YOU .

Not about what you could have done better.

Not about how you have to bend more or be less to be enough.

It's about why you can stop belittling yourself.

That your value doesn't depend on whether someone calls back.

Or whether your last message was read.

Or whether someone is “ready” for you.

Because you're not here to wait.

You are here to shine.

To see yourself again.

To realize that the most important relationship in your life is the one with yourself.

So instead of 7 reasons why he doesn’t love you:

Here are 7 reminders why YOU must not forget yourself:

1. Your intuition doesn't lie. If it feels wrong, it often is.

2. You're not too much. Anyone who says that is simply not enough for you.

3. You're allowed to have needs. And you're allowed to express them – clearly and powerfully.

4. You are not responsible for his inability to love.

5. Your pain is real. And you don't have to apologize for it.

6. You are not alone. Even if it sometimes feels that way.

7. You are enough. Always have been. Now. Here. Just like this.

So:

Delete the list.

Keep your pride.

And write to yourself:

"I'm not here to be loved. I'm here to love myself. Everything else comes after."

I AM A WOMAN.

Your self. Your freedom. Your life.